For women rebuilding after survival, loss, and disruption.

The Better Ex-Wife is a body of work, and a voice, for the after.

After the leaving.
After the loss.
After the moment you realize the life you were building no longer fits who you are.

This is a space for women who have survived something that changed them.

Not to fix themselves.
Not to rush healing.
Not to perform resilience.

But to rebuild honestly, with clarity, boundaries, and self-trust.

Grounded talks and reflections on grief, identity, survival, and the work of coming back to yourself.

WHAT THIS IS

The Better Ex-Wife is where survival turns into language.

It’s work rooted in lived experience and grounded reflection, created for women navigating what comes after:

The relationship.
The disruption.
The version of yourself that had to endure.

This space holds identity, grief, boundaries, and the slow return to your own life without self-abandonment.

Some of this work is written.

Some of it is spoken out loud.

All of it is meant to meet you in the aftermath.

HOW THE WORK LIVES HERE

This work takes shape across three connected formats.

Writing
Personal essays on survival, motherhood, grief, and becoming.
Written with honesty, not performance.

Speaking
Grounded talks and curated experiences for women ready to reclaim their voice, their authority, and their next chapter.

Not through spectacle.
Through truth.

The Podcast
A steady space for reflection and integration.
Conversations for women navigating what comes after survival.

Each format offers a different way into the same work.

WHO THIS IS FOR

This space is for women who:

• have spent years surviving and are ready to live differently

• are done explaining, proving, or justifying their boundaries

• want language for what changed, and permission to move forward on their own terms

This is not a space for quick fixes or forced optimism.

It is a space for steadiness, clarity, and self-loyalty.

A NOTE ON HEALING

You don’t need to rush your healing.
You don’t need to arrive anywhere.

Healing here is not about erasing what happened.

It is about integration.
It is about choice.
It is about learning how to live without abandoning yourself.

WHERE TO BEGIN

If you’re drawn to language and reflection, begin with the writing.

If you’re seeking shared experience and perspective, the podcast offers a place to listen and sit with what’s true.

If you’re ready for deeper collective work and embodiment, speaking engagements offer space to explore these themes together, out loud.

Take what lands.
Leave what doesn’t.

This work exists to walk with you as you rebuild.

Slowly.
Honestly.
And on your own terms.

For speaking inquiries and collaborations, please visit the Speaking page.